This is a rather comprehensive list of my previous work. If you are looking instead for my Upcoming Appearances, those can be found here.
TV/Internet Video
Vice Guide To Sex (2019)
Bug Play: AKA Formicophilia
– Sounding for Prostate Play
-Playing With Intact Cocks
-Urethral Sounding
-Playing With Intact Cocks
-Making Your Unusual Fetish Work for You and Your Partner(s)
-Sex, Kink & Disability
-Intro to Needleplay
History Channel (US) Jan. 2010
Strange Rituals ep. 9 “Rites of Passage”
Five TV (UK) 2009
7 Deadly Sins ep. 6 “Envy”
(I have confirmation from the production company that the episode did in fact air and I’m now trying to track down the exact date, as well as a copy of the segment)
Publications & Performances
“Honor Through Absence,” (2015) Sarenth Odinsson, Calling To Our Ancestors, Asphodel Press, Hubbardston MA
Featured Guest – The Passion and Soul Podcast by Lee Harrington – Episode “Kink, Sexuality, and Disability with Wintersong Tashlin” 10/21/14
Guest Storyteller -“Bare: True Stories of Sex, Desire, and Romance”, Portland ME 8/11/14
Keynote Address “Inclusion Is Not A Moonshot” for Transcending Boundaries Conference 2014
“Why I Don’t Try To Prevent HIV (and don’t think you should either)” – SunnyMegatron.com 8/14/12
Photo Installation for the July Art Walk – Portland ME
“PA’s ‘Year of the Bible’ Illustrates A Deeper Political Aim” Pittsburgh’s Out #421, May 2012
Selected Photo Series, Salacious Magazine Vol. 3 “Leather”
Interview “The TSA Generation Shares Insight and Experience,” Inside TSA Vol. 39 No. 3
Cover Art/Selected Photographs (2011) R Adams, A Gift Of Maggots, Asphodel Press, Hubbardston MA
“Invoking Consent”, HUGGIN vol 2 p. 16-18
“Witches with Weapons.” New Witch Magazine #18, Autumn 2008
“Buying My Gun the Andvari Way,” (2008) F Arismendi, G Krasskova, Root Stone & Bone. Asphodel Press, Hubbardston MA
Selected Photographs (2010) R Kaldera, Double Edge. Alfred Press, Hubbardston MA
Selected Quotations (2005) R Kaldera, Pagan Polyamory, Llewellyn Publications St. Paul MN
Selected Quotations (2009) K Filan, R Kaldera, Drawing Down the Spirits, Destiny Books
Event Programing & Production
2015 GNI Naked Fest
Kink Programming Coordinator
2014 Dark Odyssey Summer Fest
Assistant Producer
Programming Coordinator
ION Coordinator
2014 Dark Odyssey Fusion
Assistant Producer
Special Event Coordinator
ION Coordinator
Staff Photographer
2014 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
Assistant Producer
Programing Coordinator
Creative Director
Staff Photographer
2013 Dark Odyssey Surrender
Assistant Producer
Staff Photographer
2013 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp
Assistant Producer
Staff Photographer
2013 Dark Odyssey Fusion
Assistant Producer
Special Events Coordinator
Ordeal Track Co-Coordinator
Staff Photographer
2013 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
Assistant Producer
Programing Coordinator
Staff Photographer
2012 Dark Odyssey Surrender
Programing Coordinator
Production Assistant
National Talent Coordinator
2012 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp
Creative Director/Programing Coordinator
Assistant Producer
Staff Photographer
2012 Dark Odyssey Fusion
Special Events Coordinator
Production Assistant
2012 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
Programing Coordinator
Production Assistant
2010 Primal Arts Festival
Co-Director of Ritual Programming (w/Del Tashlin)
Workshops & Presentations
FetCamp, 2019
Intro to CBT
NELA Fetish Fleamarket 2019
(I taught five classes, but I’ve got to check up on what they were)
NELA Fetish Flearmarket 2018
(I taught five classes, but I’ve got to check up on what they were)
KinkyCon 2017
Penile Anatomy for Play
Sex and/or Kink and Disability
A Whirlwind Tour of the Gender Spectrum
THE Crossroads 2017
Cleansing with Kink
Sex, Magic, and the Great Outdoors
Dark Moon Rising 2017
Ritual Facilitator
Disgust as a Spritual Practice
Pretty Mean: Artistically Sadistic Needleplay w/Thista & Wintersong 2017
TNG Maine – June Brunswick Munch
Concepts of Kink
Free Spirit Gathering, 2017
Unpacking Pagan Privilege (co-taught with Thorn)
Energy Magic Design & Construction
Magic with the Modern World
Working with Ancestors of Spirit
NELA Fetish Fleamarket 2017
Intersections: Gender, Sexuality, and Kink
Formicophilia Fun!
Ritualized Kink
Using Pop-Culture Archetypes for Erotic Roleplay
Considerations for Trans*/Cis Erotic Play
Spirituality Panel (member)
Dark Odyssey Fusion 2016
Needle Predicament Bondage
Urethral Insertion Play
The Sacred Serial Killer Inside Us
Ritual Facilitator for the Rite of Spirit
Free Spirit Gathering 2016
Tiniest Athame
Silver Portal
Disability in the Pagan Community
2016 NELA Fetish Flea #46
Navigating Poly
Intro to CBT
Formicophilia Fun!
Using Pop-Culture Archetypes for Erotic Roleplay
Erotic Photographer’s Panel
2015 Transcending Boundaries Conference
More Than Missionary
Guy Problems
2015 Dark Moon Rising
Ritualized Kink
Sacred & Magical Blood (w/Asrik Tashlin)
2015 Geeky Kink New England III
Guest of Honor
Penile Anatomy for Play
Sex, Kink, and Disability
Living an “Out” Poly Life
Erotic Genitorture
2015 Free Spirit Gathering – Darlington, MD
Communicating Desire
Solo Sacred Sex
Pattern Magic
The Elemental Lovers (guided meditation)
Strategies for Everyday Activism
Played “Time” in the Main Ritual
2015 Dark Odyssey Fusion – Darlington, MD
Sacred Blood Play/Magic
Formicophilia Fun
Sex, Magic, & The great Outdoors
Ritual Facilitator for Ordeal Track
2015 GNI Naked Fest
CBT: Mean Things To Do To Guy’s Bits
Urethral Sounding
Navigating Poly
The GNI Naked Fest Exploratorium
2015 CatalystCon East – Arlington, VA
A Whirlwind Tour of the Gender Spectrum
2015 The Five College Queer Gender & Sexuality Conference – Amherst MA
Concepts of Kink
Out In The World
2015 “Beyond 50 Shades” Seminar Series #4 Physical Skills For “50 Shades” Play, Arundel ME
2015 “Beyond 50 Shades” Seminar Series #3 Roleplay For Erotic Exploration, Arundel ME
2015 Sadistic Needleplay w/Wintersong – The Society, Hartford CT
2015 “Beyond 50 Shades” Seminar Series, Session #2 “Communicating Desire: It Doesn’t Have To Be Scary,” Arundel, ME
2015 “Beyond 50 Shades” Seminar Series, Session #1 “Bringing 50 Shades Home,” Arundel, ME
2015 The Fetish Fair Fleamarket #44, Providence, RI
Penile Anatomy for Play
Cock & Ball Torture
Trans/Cis Erotic Play
Sex, Kink, & Disability
LGBTQ Spectrum Panel
2014 The Society Presents: Coming Out Different, Hartford, CT
Out in the World
Living “Outside the Box”
2014 College of the Atlantic, Bar Harbor ME
Sex & Disability
2014 Dark Odyssey Summer Fest, Darlington MD
Sex, Magic, & The Great Outdoors
2014 Trans Spectrum Kinksters, Boston MA
Strategies for Trans/Cis Erotic Play
2014 TES Fest, Piscataway NJ
Intro to CBT
Urethral Insertion Play
Spirituality of Kinky Sex
A Whirlwind Tour of the Gender Spectrum
2014 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD
The Gay Guy’s Blowjob Practicum
Processing New Experiences
Crafting Sacred Trauma
5 Steps to Becoming A Great Presenter
The Rite of Chance (officiant)
The Ritual of Dark Indulgences (officiant)
2014 Hampshire College
Intro to Erotic Roleplay
Kink & Spirituality
2014 Transcending Boundaries Conference – Inclusion In Action, Hartford CT
Keynote Speaker – “Inclusion Is Not A Moonshot”
Kink & Disability
Opening Ritual
Growing Up Queer From The Parent & Child’s Perspective (w/Ellen Meyers)
2014 University of Southern Maine, Portland ME
Concepts of Kink
2014 Fetish Fair Fleamarket #42 (FFF42), Warwick, RI
Making An Unusual Fetish Work
Kink & Disabilty
Strategies for Trans/Cis Erotic Play
Crafting Sacred Trauma
2014 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, Washington DC
The Gay Guys’ Guide To Blowjobs: Now For Everyone (w/Lucas Brooks)
2014 Winter Wickedness, Columbus OH
A Whirlwind Tour of the Gender Spectrum
“Spiritualizing” Kinky Fun
2013 Dark Odyssey Surrender, San Francisco CA
Crafting Sacred
Trauma Living “Outside the Box”
Living an “Out” Poly Life
Needles & Energy: Using the Silver Portal
2013 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp, Darlington MD
The Gay Guys’ Guide To Blowjobs: Now For Everyone (w/Lucas Brooks)
2013 The Floating World, Edison NJ
Living Outside The Box
Living An Out Poly Life
Sex That Hurts: Erotic Genitorture
2013 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD
Crafting Sacred Trauma
Rite of Chance
Footsteps of Inanna
2013 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, Darlington, MD
Introducing Your Monster to Your Lover
Trans*/Cis Relationships & Play
Opening Ritual: Connections in Blood
2012 MyeSensuals Education Series, Arundel ME
Genitorture Overview
2012 Dark Odyssey Surrender, San Francisco CA
Penile Anatomy For Play
Urethral Sounding
Dark Roleplaying (taught w/Lee Harrington)
Opening Ritual (w/Lee Harrington)
2012 RACKshop, Burlington VT
Understanding the Gender Spectrum
Strategies for Trans*/Cis Play
Facilitated Discussion – Playing w/Gender & Gender Roles in Erotic Play & BDSM
2012 Transcending Boundaries Conference, Springfield MA
Living “Outside the Box”
Communication for Dating & Scoring
The Unintentional Closet: Queer Identity in Hetero-Presumptive Situations
2012 Exquisit Agony & Bloody Ecstasy: Workshops with Wintersong, Pittsburgh PA
“Safer” Bloodplay
Sex That Hurts
2012 Exploring Dynamics in Trans/Cis Relationships at the GLCC, Pittsburgh PA
2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME
Penile Anatomy For Play
2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME
Bridging the Gap – Bringing 50 Shades & More Into Your Erotic Life
2012 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD
Ordeal Track Facilator
Urethral Insertion Play
2012 Free Spirit Gathering, Darlington MD
(Not) Straight from the QUILTBAG: Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity (teen track)
Piercings and Tattoos: Trendy Decorations with Deeper Meaning (teen track)
Walking Someone Else’s Road: Working Outside of Your Pantheon and Comfort Zone
Breaking Magical Ties
Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer (adult track)
The Scourge and the Kiss Ritual (adult track)
2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME
Basic Kink Techniques Overview & Exploritorium
2012 Turtle Hill Beltane, Darlington MD
Communication for Magical Erotic Play
Honoring Your Personal Darkness
Wielding A Red Wand
Soil of the Past, Flowers of the Future (ritual)
2012 Five College Queer Gender & Sexuality Conference, Amherst MA
Navigating Poly
2012 MyeSensuals Education Series, Arundel ME
Urethral Play – How & Why
2012 February Dark Odyssey WinterFire, Washington DC
Sadistic Needleplace
Communication For Dating & Scoring
Opening Ritual: Summoning Desire
Closing Ritual: Preparing for Emergence
Beyond the Veil: Underworld Journey Ritual (as part of Clan Tashlin)
2012 FFF #38, Providence RI (appearance canceled to do auto accident)
2011 Intro to Erotic Roleplay, Augusta ME
2011 Inservice Workshop on Tourette Syndrome, Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston MA
2011 Community Production of “Under Milk Wood,” Peaks Island, ME
Playing the roles of: Cherry Owen, Lord Cut-Glass, Organ Morgan
2011 Brimstone II, Asbury Park NJ
Making An Unusual Fetish Work
Needle Predicament Bondage
Living an Out Poly Life
Navigating Poly
Exploring Dynamics in Trans/Cis Relationships (Debut Class!)
Growing Up Queer from the Child & Parent’s Perspective (taught w/my AWESOME mom)
Kinky Person Panel
2011 The Society, Hartford MA
Sadistic Needleplay
Cock & Balls a (re)Introduction (which has since been renamed Penile Anatomy For Play)
Hands-on Needleplay
2011 Dark Moon Rising, Hubbardston, MA
Crafting Sacred Trauma
Dating & Divine HR: A Discussion
Hands on Needleplay
Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer
Cock & Balls: A (re)Introduction (which has since been renamed Penile Anatomy For Play)
Sex, Kink, and Disability
Ritual for the Breaking of Energetic Ties (CANCELLED DUE TO SITE REPAIRS)
CBT for (just) One
Being the Sexual Initiator
Crafting Sacred Trauma
2011 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD
-Sex That Hurts
-Being the Sexual Initiator
-Needles & Energy: Using the Silver Portal
-Ritual of Blood, Earth, and Letting Go
2011 (6/10) Intermediate Kink Techniques and Exploration, XXXPosed Windham NH
-FtM CBT co-taught w/Lee Harrington
-QPC Skill Share: Chemical Play
2011 Kinky Con IV.5, Lee NH
-Mean Things to do to Guys’ Bits
2011 FSA Beltane
Sacred Sex for One
Communication for Magical Erotic Play
Ritual For the Breaking of Energetic Ties
2011 FSA Beltane Pre-Conference Intensive: Sacred & Magical Needleplay w/Wintersong & Del
2011 XXXPosed BDSM Basics & Beyond Seminar Series for April 2011
-Basic Kink Techniques Overview and Exploration
2011 Kink Academy Open House, Cambridge MA
– Chemical Play Demo
2011 New England Dungeon Society Presents: Sex That Hurts w/Wintersong Tashlin
2011 5 College Queer Gender & Sexuality Conference
-Strategies for Everyday Activism
-Queer Spirituality
2011 Dark Odyssey WinterFire
-Introducing Your Monster To Your Lover
-Sexual Initiator (now called “Guiding First Times”)
-Guided Meditation Ritual: Guided Journey Into Your Personal Underworld
2010/11 WinterSolstice
-Mean Things to do to Guy’s Bits
-Honoring Your Personal Darkness
-Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer
2010 Transcending Boundaries
-Strategies for Everyday Activism
-The Unintentional Closet: Queer Identity in Heteronormitive Situations
2010 New England Dungeon Society: Dark Roleplay w/Lee Harrington & Wintersong Tashlin
2010 Seacoast Kinky Con III
-Needle Play 101
-Introducing Your Monster to Your Lover
2010 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp
-Urethral Play 101
-The Spirituality of Kinky Sex
-The Tiniest Athame: Using Needles For Energy Work & Magic
2010 Dark Moon Rising
-Reconciling Safety and Spirituality in Ordeal and Sacred Play
2010 Primal Arts Festival (Presenter & Co-Director of Ritual Programming)
Workshops:
-Honoring Your Personal Darkness
-Foreskin Restoration as a Devotional Practice for Self Healing
-Using the Waters of Life: Magical and Spiritual Uses for a Variety of Bodily Fluids
Rituals:
-Community Web Hook-Pull Ritual
-Wild Hunt Ritual
2010 Free Spirit Gathering
-Cleansing Without All the Hand Waving
-Magic(k) With Found Objects
-Magician in the Desert: Magic Without Tools
-Soccer Fan at a Football Game: UPG in the Broader Community
-Using the Waters of Life: Magical and Spiritual Uses for a Variety of Bodily Fluids
2010 NY School Nurses Association Annual Conference
-An Educator’s Guide to Tourette Syndrome
2010 FSA Beltane
-Breaking The Ties That Bind
-The Tiniest Athame: Using Needles For Energy Work & Magic
-Cleaning Up the Other Sticky Stuff: Post Magical/Erotic Play Cleansing Techniques
2010 FSA Beltane Pre-Conference: Crafting Sacred Trauma (with Del)
2010 Black Rose Educational Series: Panel Discussion Participant “Self Play”
2010 Shrewsbury High School
-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview
2010 DarkOdyssey WinterFire
-Sex, Kink, & Disability
2009 Dark Moon Rising
-Honoring Your Personal Darkness
2009 Free Spirit Gathering
2009 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp
-Intro to Cock and Ball Needleplay
-Crafting Sacred Trauma
-Energy, Magic, Sex and the Great Outdoors
-Wielding a Red Wand: An Introduction to Magic with Blood
2009 CUSFNorth
-Intro To Needle Play
2009 Shrewsbury High School
-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview
2009 DarkOdyssey WinterFire
-Male Genitorture For (Just) One
-Foundations of Energy Work & Play
2008 Spirit Worker’s Intentional Gathering (SwiG)
-Walking Down Someone Else’s Road: Working Outside Your Pantheon and Comfort Zone
2008 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp
-Getting Your Feet Wet: Erotic Energy Play
-Foundations of Energy Work & Play
-Playing With Intact (Not-Circumcised) Dicks
-Energy, Magic, Sex & The Great Outdoors
2008 DarkOdyssey WinterFire
-Painful Things To Do With (And To) A Guy’s Bits
-Playing With Intact (Not-Circumcised) Dicks
2008 The Floating World
-Communication for “Spooky” Erotic Play
-Living an “Out” Poly Life
-Protection for Your “Woo-Woo”, Not Just Your Woodle
2008 Shrewsbury High School
-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview
2007 Keepers Crossing
2007 Dark Moon Rising
-Protection for Your Woo Woo, Not Just Your Woodle
2007 DarkOdyssey SpringFire
-Getting That Magical Toy
-Ostara Ritual (w/Lee Harrington)
2006 NH Pagan Pride
-Intro To Pattern Magic
-Intro To Energy Theory & Practice
2006 National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference
-Transitioning From Home to College
2003-2006 Asphodel Beltane & Asphodel Kingdom Day Weekend
-Various Workshops from the College Of Brigantia’s Willow Root Curriculum
2004- National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference
-Leaving Home w/Tourette Syndrome
2003 Asphodel Samhain
-Member of Ritual Design Team & co-officiant
2002 Asphodel Samhain
-Co-officiant
2000- National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference
-Living with Tourette Syndrome a Team Perspective
1999- Rhode Island School Nurses Association
– An Educator’s Guide to Tourette Syndrome
1999-2003 Officiant for Hampshire College Monthly Moon Circle
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